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Ryan Michael's avatar

“Girls like assholes” I thought in my 20s.

So I became and asshole and became more successful with women.

But once I married one of those girls, the real me showed up and I was just a passive aggressive nice guy faking it and lost frame over time.

Now divorced searching for the balance you speak of.

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Frank's avatar

Thanks for the post. The moral of the story is, a man goes through a lot to get "a little". The question each man must ask himself, "Is the grief and stress worth it?"

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French OG's avatar

The grief and stress are worth it. Not to get girls but to build your emotional fortitude. Men are not born they are made.

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