Why She Left You?
What Happens And How To Address it
This is how and why your girl switched from caring and loving to distant and dismissive.
The reality is that women often appreciate social dynamics unconsciously better than you and are usually many steps ahead of you. Some will do it consciously to gain leverage, some will be a result of their ever-changing emotions driven by your response to them.
They will understand and be very perceptive of the nuances in your behaviour and will operate covert manipulations. At the same time, guys will have a hard time understanding why communicating openly to address issues does not work, due to their bias in fixing problems.
By the time men realise the issue, they are already way behind the curve, because they did not heed the signals from her.
1. When you drop your guard
The first step happens when you drop your guard and you become soft. We all love comfort and routines; however, this is when the trap occurs, and when it is taken away from you, you feel that gap, and this is where clinginess and neediness arise.
Women seek leverage, and she can reach that from an emotional standpoint. We say women are driven by their emotions; however, she will want you to join the dance. She will be contaminating you with her chaos once you fall for it.
This is how guys who have their shit together and the objective leverage end up being the puppet of their girlfriends or wives because they emotionally depend on them.
