The Reverse Madonna-Whore Complex
Women Suffer From It Too
Here is something that I don’t see discussed, but holds a lot of relevance, and something that a lot of guys who have been stuck in the fun zone but never in the take seriously zone miss, and it will explain why they have problems breaking that barrier, if that is what they wish:
When women say they “lost themselves” in a relationship, there is truth behind the statement.
They lose part, or even their whole, identity, as every committed relationship requires adaptation; the extent will vary from one relationship to the next.
She spends time doing his hobbies.
She integrates into his social life.
She compromises on his routines.
Her life gradually becomes less exclusively her own.
Individuality is inevitably traded for the union (something many women who want a relationship are not fully grasping, as they want their cake and eat it too).
The thing is, different men receive different versions of the woman. Early dating defines how she will treat you, and your behaviour will convey where she places you.
