In the RSD days, Todd and Julien were my most significant influence when it came to Game. This is where I learnt most of my technical, verbal and vibe skills before I adapted them to my personality.
His coming to London this weekend was an excellent opportunity to reminisce about my younger days. Still, I also thought this could be useful for people to learn, know, or revisit.
The way it started was through asking the audience questions for him to conceptualise on the fly different concepts of Game, which would speak to the most rather than to address the specific challenges one by one of the members of the audience.
I found it pretty intelligent as when you have a wealth of knowledge, being able to compartmentalise it from A to Z is quite challenging and not à propos whilst still being relevant to the people there.
So here we go:
=> Cold approach can become addictive, but also taxing as it affects your adrenaline levels between the ups and downs. So it is about running a sustainable program as you begin. Meeting new people can be exciting, but also a source of fear, whether it is to do with the person approaching or the person receiving
It is like a drug => upper and downer => which also explains how a girl who was seemingly hot on you the night before can become cold and ghost you the day after you got her number.
=> Chaos helps bad Game and penalises good Game.
=> Tailor what you do to what you are good at
=> People overemphasise the cultural aspect vs the feminine nature. 90% of Women are the same, the remaining part is the culture.
