How Do You Handle A Difficult Bitch

Where Bad Faith Meets Its Unavoidable Negative Outcome

Due to a bad experience, many people project their past bad experiences onto someone who has no responsibility for them, yet will pay the price should they decide to. I don’t. Some may ask: “Why did you not do as the woman suggested?” The same people would end up in a henpecked relationship because they have standards for themselves. This is something both genders do. However, this fear pushes them further away from the outcome they seek to reach. They are playing to avoid losing rather than winning.

Playing to avoid losing is just postponing the fear rather than eradicating it, whilst giving oneself the illusion of control, through a negative self-feeding, confirmatory bias loop of manifesting the bad outcomes they were trying to avoid. Still, they created them out of fear-driven actions.

Below is a perfect example of someone who started the interaction with me in one of the most charming ways on Bumble. She had an excellent game. We exchanged numbers to switch to WhatsApp. This is when we were sorting the logistics of the date, and things started to take an interesting turn.